Elder Sister Motherly Love

Have you ever felt that your elder sister is your second mother and your elder brother is your second father. Actually elder sister is the mirror image of your mother. Currently i was visited to the sister's home. She is married and living in Telangana. My jijai (Brother in law) has government job and working for Railway as Goods Train manager. And i am living in Haryana and i have a private job there. Have you noticed that i have mentioned the Private and government job seperately because we belongs to Bihar. In Bihar, Government job is ultimate goal. Even you can't get beautiful wife if you haven't government job because no one will give you own daughter. They think that there is no job security, there will be no any retirement salary and other benefits etc. that's why they afraid to the private job. At some point this is correct. Every one wants peace in life. Don't want to live in fear or doubt that one day i fired from job after that what will i do ?? How i will pay the bills, house rents, school fees, how i will feed to my family etc. But luckily i am working in very good private company Best automobile company in India.

I coming to my point actually i am forgotten in Private vs Government jobs. Leave it here for some time. In My company there is two shutdown one in June in and another one in December. Shutdown means 1 week leave for employees. And for company they will do maintanence of the machine or equipment etc . So i was visited in Telangana. I have a train from NDLS (New Delhi railway station). On this day, from the morning the rain is continued without any break. But my excitement was at another level. So i reached the station before 1.5 hours. One old person comes near to me told me that i want some money then i give him some rupees again another person comes again i give some rupees. Those people doesn't beg to another person around me . That was some unusual. When i was returning again one old person comes and want some money i give her some rupees. Actually i give some money to the around 10-12 person in this entire journey. During the travel, i meet some wonderful people. Actually they working in same company. They were joined this year. So they were very excited about to know more about the company. I clear their doubt. They are very nice. Hmara mst time pass ho gya. For the dinner, my favourite san order the food from Zomato (Gajar ka halwa and dosa). They also order the food form Domino's. Now we can order the food in Train. This is very good facilities. We share the food and happily do the dinner. After dinner i want to sleep. But they start the gossip about their college friends or colleagues. But for me sleep is ultimate goal for any day. After some time "Mai mst so gya" . 

On the next day I reached my destination. After that i visit some wonderful places and temple. I pray for my self, my favourites one and my family. But in between i experience something different. I was with my sister. She was in different role. This role is totally new for me. She behaves like our mother. Actually she is totally mirror image of my mother. She cares me at the next level. She asked every time that kuchh khaya, khayega, kb khayega, bhukh lga hai, thak gye ho, ye kha lo, ye bna dete hai kha lena etc etc. Like i visit one temple. We are going from auto. She is asking that achha se baithe ho n, koi dikkat nhi hai n. When we arrived in temple she is like puja kr lo, photo click kr dete hain, kuchh lega, temple dekha, achhe se ghum lo etc. She is at the different level. One day she told to the Jijaji :- Jaiye jakr ye khila dijiye kuchh, achha sa clothes le dijiyega. Me be like:- Yaar mai bhi job krta hu. At the end she won and i got new T-shirt and jeans. I stay 6 days there. I totally enjoyed but there was some arguments are on going in my mind. That argument will be continued I don't know when it will be stopped. I also eat some tasty tasty food. Like dal bhat chokha chatney achar. bihar style sbji. Gajar ka halwa, Masala dosa, Biryani. wha ka Some special food.  When i was returning, my sister prepared so much food like roti-bhujiya, puri, gajar ka halwa, apple, nimki, thekua. There is also some packets wla namkeen. Jijaji bought some medicine. Actually whatever i told you the same things do my mother whenever i go to home. same care, same energy, everything I feel similar. Aate time dahi khilana, bhagwan jii se pary krne ke liye everything was same.

Aate time paise bhi mile the. I don't know why but i want that money from both of them. And i got it. But i don't want to go back to Delhi and live in akelapan, anxiety, stress. I want the mental peace. But for the family i have to work and work hard so i can change the status of my family. My parents change the status of my grand parents. Now, I have to change mine.

That's what i feel. In these days. If you have similar experience then you can share with me.